A Second Look at Happiness and Giving

by The Park Wife on March 19, 2014

Y’all know I love me some Andy Griffith Show, the show that portrays a time where simplicity, kindness, and love for your neighbor was paramount.

We were watching a bit of an Andy Griffith marathon at our home the other day with some of our family members that stayed a few days extra after our family reunion. We have the whole series on DVD, but we watched one that I had not seen before, or the poignancy of it did not hit me at a time in my life that I needed to hear it. It knocked me over this time.classReunion250

Andy and Barney were attending their high school reunion. Andy’s high school sweetheart walks in and…lights dim… everyone turns to watch them… they meet on the dance floor…. and sparks fly (where was Helen?). Later, they go for a walk and start talking about old times. Andy is all giddy about rekindling their romance. He then starts to wonder aloud what happened to them all those years ago and asked if maybe she could stay in Mayberry a while. She says she couldn’t, she had to get back to Chicago, she needed a place where she could expand and grow.

I was with her, I thought I was at least, I understood her reasoning, then she said there was no way she could live up to her potential in Mayberry, that life in Chicago was so different.  And, then Andy, oh Andy, says ~ well life is not that different there, it’s about being happy, that’s the main thing, isn’t that what everyone is shooting for? Isn’t that the prize of the game, to be happy?

That hit me hard.  I find myself striving, looking for that next project, that next thing to conquer when in reality, I am missing out on spending time enjoying the prizes I have already been given.

Then, I saw this. It is worth the time to watch it. The dad tried to impart to his son that being rich is not about how much you have, but about how much you can give. Oh, amen, amen.

Go grab a Kleenex,
The Park Wife

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MegAnne March 20, 2014 at 3:32 am

I love that episode. It is unforgetablej.

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Lana March 21, 2014 at 6:18 pm

I love that episode too. So, so good. Me and the baby girl sit down every night and watch it together. I always wanted to know what happened to Ellie, the lady pharmacist. She was full of fire and didn’t take crap from anyone. She’s my favorite Andy girlfriend. :)

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Natalie Z March 23, 2014 at 6:05 pm

That is so true! Sometimes we forget to enjoy the ride while getting where we need to be. However, sometimes we forget to stop and smell the roses when we get where we wanted to be. I am working on finding joy in the little accomplishments right now!

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Jamie March 23, 2014 at 6:48 pm

Never seen that episode but it’s a great lesson!

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Deborah Brauser March 23, 2014 at 10:48 pm

I’m not quite sure how I missed that episode, but it sounds like one worth hunting down. Great lessons in all of his shows. (Along with some thoughtful smiles and downright belly laughs. :-)

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Talya Tate Boerner March 27, 2014 at 10:21 pm

Oh that video is so touching. I have a big lump in my throat. Thank you for sharing Stephanie. Everyone needs to watch it.

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Katharine March 31, 2014 at 1:38 am

What everyone else said!
Plus it makes me think hard about all the time I invest in e-things and just where to draw the line. I think the lesson in that episode was that they both missed their intended potential because she just had to run off and marry herself to something else.
“I find myself striving, looking for that next project, that next thing to conquer when in reality, I am missing out on spending time enjoying the prizes I have already been given.”
Yes. Me.
Thanks for reminding me, Stephanie.

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Jeanetta March 31, 2014 at 8:11 pm

Andy is one of our family faves! Even my 15 yr old who cant stand b&w loves it. So much good philosophy.

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Stephanie April 5, 2014 at 8:15 am

I’m right there with you on Andy Griffith. I don’t remember that episode but it’s right on par w/ the lessons that Andy could teach. I need that reminder too sometimes. Often I’m looking for the next big thing and feel discouraged b/c it doesn’t materialize. But I’m so focused on what I want that I miss what I already have. Thanks for this reminder. Bloom where you are planted

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